...busy life...

...my new chapter has begun. it started at about three weeks ago, i guess. my life is not as miserable as what my friends thought it would be...it's kind of, slow and enjoyable. Mr. A and i still contacting each other just like friends...Az still text me within 2 weeks time. that's the guys stories...

every day i get back home and i will take my fresh shower...then straight to bed. i've been living my life like a busy person...although i don't have anything to do, i will find something to keep me occupy. i can't make myself free because my mind would think of some negative thoughts and i wouldn't like it. i wonder how would it feel if i tell my mum that i really want to be a single parent...it must be a jaw dropping event for my mum. my dad? heart-attack!

i have a class on Women in Literature...it is so far my favourite subject as i could put myself in all the characters' shoe...it is somehow and sometimes reflects me in all of my relationships that i had with my exes...it's kind of fun to put my thoughts into it and being agreed on...hehe.

my friends on the other hand have lots going on with them...some with an untrusted MEN, some have doubts within themselves...

my past experience help me a lot although it really puts me into a lot of trouble but it always put my feet back on the ground. so far, im enjoying what i have and had...i love the new chapter that im in right now...geelicious!

...curiousity kills a cat...

I'm shocked to hear about a cat's death in front of the house door at the house that i rented with my colleagues. the thing is my shoe is on top of it...i know that i hate cats...but i wouldn't want to kill it. my life is full of curiousity and i might end up like the cat.

i've tried a lot of things to be with someone that i really love but not even one sticks. maybe it's just me who don't have any fate with men. for me, it's not easy to trust guys, i can love them but not whole-heartedly because it's hard for me to trust them. i've been lied to a lot of times and everytime it hurts but i never once tell the men dat i've been with dat im hurt with wat they did to me. i just told them..."I'm fine and u don't need to worry about me because i'm strong than any woman u've dated with (with a big smile on my face)"..."don't need to worry about me because as long as ur happy, i'm happy!"...it kills me when i said those words...but i rather see them happy with someone they've chosen..besides, i can't force someone to love me...it's just wrong.

everytime i'm sad, i will seek my friends to mend everything. they make me laugh and forget about the bitterness...well, life's too short for us not to enjoy it. now, i'm livin my life just like a rockstar! hehe....

i swear i'll never fall in love again!

...it happen again...

mr. A shows who he is...he is a player...i jez texted him about it. i was shocked to find a picture of him with the girl that he says he did not have feelings with. he lied to me and he didn't tell me about it not until i found out in his facebook page that he went with the girl. i tink he sleeps with her because he didn't allow me to go to his room...is der any decent man out there? is lying that good? he said that he hates lies...well that ruined a relationship...

WANTED: friends...

...last night, i talked to Mr. G., he has a lot of problems...he told me that his phone went to the lake for a shower. the pregnant lady threw it...he lost all his contacts. he was very surprised that i called him. usually, when i call him, he will say "Hello, aunty...Eugenia...Mak Cik"...but last night...it was "HELLO?"...then i said to him, "o my God, u deleted my number?"...then he told me about his phone...it's actually his second phone down into the drain...i felt sorry for him. it was all because of the text between me and him that cause him trouble. it's true, im not over him yet...he asked me to curse him, then i told him "what for? is it going to help u and me? if i curse you, it is not going to help me and you...it's enough of what you are facing now." then he keeps on saying sorry as he lets me wait for him...i did not wait for him. i just wanted to make sure that he's okay so that i can move on. i really do love him...how can i move on when he needs support and a shoulder to cry on. i've been lying to myself about my feelings and Mr. A.

...between me and Mr. A., we have feelings that we kept only to ourselves. i dont really like dat...it's like a secret relationship. whenever people asked me about him, i would just say "we're friends...close friends, nothing more"...i am happy whenever he's with me, but something tells me that he's been acting differently lately...he has this cold shoulder when im with him. whenever i call him and he missed it, he usually returns my call...but now, it's not like dat...he just text me...m goin to sleep.luv u.muah....he keeps on denying it when i say dat he acts differently. i feel the heartache...it's my fault to let him down when we had the talk and my drunk ass...makes it difficult more...sometimes, i just wanted to be more normal...cry whenever i want to cry...but i cant! i feel hurt but couldnt let it out...i really hate the things that im facing now...it's not what i wish for and i feel like running away...starting a new chapter...but seriously, im really tired of it...

we all know about our friends' characters...they are there when u need them the most. that is true friends. they will not let you down. i need a shoulder to cry on...whenever i detox myself...my friends are there to keep me occupied...seriously, they are the ones who made me stand tall and make myself better...friends are hard to comeby, so appreciate them... :) love my friends!

...dealing with things by talking...

...it is always a good idea to talk to ur partner about things. then both of u can understand each other well enough and plus its a good way to start ur new relationship and bring it to the new level. that's wat i thought it would be...hehe...

we always talk, me n my boyfriend, we talk things about the past, present and sometimes future...i really love that but then my mind wanders...i opened a very sensitive issues...about our relationship not being serious. i shouldn't have done that...i feel guilty. i kept on saying sorry to him. after the talk, both of us, feel awkward. i feel funny at the same time...i went to the club where he and his band hang out...it feels lyk it's the first time we met. he tried to kiss me, but i avoid...i dunno why the hell did i do that...it is pretty funny...then after the club, we went for supper and he brought his cousin along. he told his cousin that we've broken up and his cousin did not believe it (that's wat he said)...i was shocked to hear it when i did not even know that we've broken up...and as far as i know i did not say that i was giving up. i was very sad that i could not afford to smile as i used to when im sad...im so sad...4 REAL.

he asked me to come to the lobby to hangout with the friends...then i asked for what (which is very stupid question)...then through his facial expression, i know that he is very dissapointed. then i said..."oh, hangout in the lobby is ok but not in ur room...bcoz i thought ur asking me to come to ur room"... then i gave my very best grin...hehe...the reason being i i said that was because i thought that we' ve broken up...well, im makin an ass out of myself...then we hangout eat some fruits then he brought me to his room and massage me...hurm...his good in giving massages...i feel lyk sleeping but i can't...huhu...my parents would kill me immediately. he send me to my car and we kiss... twice! hehe...i just let the time to decide things...at the same time, eyeing for some more...no one can predict any future...but i wouldn't regret to spend my life with him as he is nice... :) but not too nice...and not dat hot either... :(

Guilty as Charged...

day by day...it's worsening. we have walls between us...i dunno whether i can survive this...he has spoken the truth but still i am hurt...should i just back off? im sure it will not hurt him because he has more than one woman to comfort him. the way he talked about her, it is like he really loves this woman n wish that he could be with her. i dun wan to be in their way. bit by bit, im havin a hard time to let him go. things arent goin easy for me. everytime, there must be sumtin that gets in my way and i gave up most of the time. i hav no confidence and i hav no one to turn to...hear me lord, stop making me meeting someone. i feel guilty and never innocent in this situation.

Mr. G called this morning and he told me that he misses me. we talked over the phone for a while. my prayers have been answered as he din win the CLEO thingy...hehe. oooopppsss...naughty me. when we talked, it feels lyk a fren who has not been calling for a long time. i never thought that he really means wat he said. i din miss him for a bit as i get my hands occupied for now. Mr. A thought that i miss him but actually my mind is thinking about a lot of things...him.

...trust...

...yesterday was a friend of mine bday. it was not that fun when things turn to be ugly. i love him...but i did not reach out to him. he told me that he loves me FOR REAL. im not sure dat whether b4 this does he loves me for real...he got drunk...i escorted him to his room and he talked to me as he is sane. he expressed his feelings again...and yup...talks bout marriage. i wonder wat will he do if i say i will...or I DO? i din respond, i just said stop babbling and ur talking nonsense as ur drunk. then he opened his eyes and said "im drunk and i still can remember everything i said." it was a downhill for me...i just happen to know that his new gf was there. i felt embarrassed...i do. i asks myself wat does she has that i dont have...it is sad, but its partly my fault as i din spent more time wit him. and went to kl after three days meeting him. n he kept on blaming himself...

i really like him and love him. its just that trust matters to both of us. maybe i just din give him a chance to prove himself. i will try it, by all means, accept him so that i can trust him. we'll see how it goes. fighting! Jia You!